Me and my friend were talking today, we were just having a really good chat, having a rant, laughing doing what we normally do, we even made brownies but they failed a bit "/ :D. It was just going so well. We talked about everything friends, boys, food, life, jobs, tattoos even. I've wanted a tattoo forever! and i have a few ideas in my head. My mum has a butterfly with its wings closed on her foot and i quite like it. It's small and cute. So i think that i want one with open wings on the same place. but slightly different. I want it with open wings. For me the closed wings symbolise the protection of my mummys arms. Its the safety that she does and always will offer and it means so much. So i decided that if i had one with open wings in would for ever symbolise my mum but at the same time it would represent the beginning of my own life. I will be setting out and becoming free.
I also wanted a dragon with butterfly wings, for me this represents the ferocity that i can contain but also the beauty that can be found everywhere around us and the beauty that i find in my friends.
As we look through pictures, we began to think. Dont you think that is amazing that we can make the shape of a heart with our hands. Is that why the sign of love is that classic heart shape? And if it is, why was that chosen to show the sign of love, it isnt like it can only be made with two people, one will do it. So what is it that makes that picture the symbol of love?
This realisation also got me wondering why is it that humans are so obsessed with finding love ? And if they loose that love, why do some let it go?
Wolves mate for life. Once they find their love they stay with them for their lifetime. Do they become bored or unhappy like humans do? Or is it just the advances that we have made that makes us divorce? If we didnt have that choice would we stay with our partners? And as i walked home i thought. Do humans mate for life? After all not all animals do. Some just stay for a season. Others stay until the "child" is born. Some stay forever. So what were humans made to do?
Anyway i promised that this wouldn't be depressing so, i'll finish on this note. If humans have a soul mate. The question is, do we choose who that soul mate is, or has fate already found it for us. And what if, we never find the one were supposed to be with?
If fate has already chosen, what is to say that our soul mates have to be a partner, what is to say that are soul mates aren't actually our friends?
Hope we will find that answer one day. But... it is not in others,it's inside you. The reason is inside all of us,giving a different bloom,there never was common to understand love the same way. Just thought i share this. Take care.
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